@里昂 不知道你怎麼了，但是希望你振作精神，沒什麼是走不出來的，有時候事情也許無法改變，但希望你心態轉換一下，換個角度去想，或者想想其他的事情，讓心情放鬆一點，也許對你好一點。
20 mei 18 door lid: 尼歐NEO
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Leon, I don't know what has you feeling you're useless, but I can assure you, that is NOT true! If you're doing the best you can and doing the right thing, then I would dare say it's others who are the problem. I'm sorry you feel this way about yourself. No one deserves that. Just know your FS "family" cares about you!!
20 mei 18 door lid: LSG417
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Your food looks great. Someone once told me, just because you are from them does not mean you are one of them. Everyone has conflict, it doe not mean it is some fault of yours. Sending good thoughts your way. You inspire me!
20 mei 18 door lid: jengetfit123
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I have a feeling you aren't the problem. Some people just can't feel better themselves unless they are making someone else feel worse.
20 mei 18 door lid: cjodyssey
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里昂 加油💪 你一直都是鼓勵大家的暖男 相信沒有問題可以難得了你💪💪💪
20 mei 18 door lid: josephc0917
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20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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里昂～雖然我不是很清楚你怎麼了，但能跟你說的是，家庭你不能選擇，但心情可以是由你自己決定的，加油了💪
20 mei 18 door lid: lillian556605
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家家有本難唸的經，不會有完全美好的家庭的，但是你可以是美好的然後影響他們～你很棒的～
20 mei 18 door lid: honeyamy
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@LSG417, thank you. There's nothing I can say about the situation. I just hope I can live in peace with my family instead of being knocked on doors in 1 am when I've got to work tomorrow. I'm sorry because I want to post some positive things here but I just couldn't do last night.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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@jengefit123, thank you so much. I am greatly encouraged. I already feel a lot better this morning. Holding grudges and resentments isn't my style.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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@amandakane1, I'm probably not the person that everyone pictures me to be, but I'm definitely like everyone here with flesh and bones and will encounter some difficulties in life. I know I'm the only one who can resolve this problem and will try my best. I was so overwhelmed last night; that's why I posted it. I don't want to give up.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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20 mei 18 door lid: fightingwecanmakeit
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@cjodyssey, thank you. I'll try my best not to be affected. i couldn't change anyone. The only thing I can change is my response to it.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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@josephc，抱歉啦~昨天我一直都很開心，沒想到就在要休息前和家人發生爭執。我很難過，但最主要是疲憊不堪，我覺得很無力，因為我今天還要上班，所以很需要體力，我很不了解為何選在那樣的時間點。
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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Leon, you don't need to apologize. We can't always be positive. Personally, I think being honest about life's difficulties, even when you can't give details, is necessary sometimes. We need people to encourage us and lift us up. Not just with weight loss and such. That may be the primary focus here, but this community is more than that. Life has struggles and those struggles can affect our eating behaviors, as well as other things. Anyway, I will keep you and your situation (God knows what that is, we do not need to know) in my prayers.
20 mei 18 door lid: LSG417
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Thank you so much. Sometimes it's just frustrating to know that you're not the person you thought you were. But that's part of life, and I'll learn from it. I'm really grateful for you've done here.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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No one is ever useless and we all make mistakes. I’m sorry you don’t have a good family. You are a good person and deserve to be happy.
20 mei 18 door lid: momma6224
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Sorry to hear you had a bad day. No family is perfect, we just don't know what happened behind closed doors. People say and do things they later regret. Maybe your family didn't mean it. Don't let this put you down. I see you're a dedicated young man and you deserved to be happy. Take care of yourself no matter what.
20 mei 18 door lid: thsiun
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@momma6224, that's because whene'er I want to be selfish and leave everything behind, I see you guys' warmhearted support. Thank you so much. I'll stay positive and forget about the disastrous night.
20 mei 18 door lid: leon_tsai
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Leon, I don’t know your situation...if your relationships are toxic it might be necessary to cut ties. But sometimes we can look within ourselves and make changes that can help relationships. We can’t change others but we can change ourselves! You are kind and smart from my perspective—you will make the right choice! Hugs to you
20 mei 18 door lid: momma6224
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